How to prevent baby tantrums

You can often keep a baby from losing control of his emotions by avoiding situations that are likely to cause tantrums. Here are some things to keep in mind:

• When your baby is tired, put him down for a nap or to sleep. Try to stick to a regular nap/sleep routine as much as possible.
• Feed your baby frequently. Babies have small tummies and need regular nourishment.
• Give your baby toys that are geared to his age and ability level so he doesn't become frustrated.
• Warn your baby before changing activities. ("One more swing, then we're going home.")
• Be patient when putting your baby in an unfamiliar environment or when introducing him to new people.
• Help your baby learn new skills (such as climbing stairs or working on puzzles).
• Keep your expectations realistic; don't expect more than your baby is capable of.
• As much as possible, keep a regular and predictable schedule.
• When your baby is overly emotional, keep yourself as calm as possible – getting agitated will just make things worse.
• Use a soothing tone of voice and gentle touch to help your baby calm down. He can't do it on his own, he needs your help.

 

Meet our Expert:

Elizabeth Pantley is a mother of four and the best-selling author of eight parenting books, including: The No-Cry Sleep Solution and The No-Cry Discipline Solution. She is also a contributing author to The Successful Child with Dr. William Sears. Based in Washington, Pantley is the president of Better Beginnings Inc. (a family resource and education company) and a parenting expert for a variety of publications including: Parents, Parenting and Redbook. (www.pantley.com)

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